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As a speech-language pathologist and mom of a preschooler, I am always looking for toys that are both fun and educational. According to Pathways.org, three year-olds should be engaging in what is referred to as “associate play.” During this time, children may be doing related activities instead of directly interacting with kids around them. They enjoy playing with new toys in a variety of ways, including blocks, dolls, dollhouses, vehicles and musical toys. While many toys have the “not suitable for children under 3” label, children at age three are less likely to put everything in their mouths. Therefore, they are able to play with toys that have more parts and smaller pieces than they were at 2 years old.
Toys that are appropriate for most three year-olds will also be appropriate at age four and five. Four year-olds should be engaging in “cooperative play” with other children. This is when children practice taking turns and sharing with others, which are necessary skills for successful social interaction. At this stage in development, preschool children are likely to be observed building, pretending and being creative. In order to foster speech and language development, social skills and critical thinking in your child, try to buy gifts that allow them to practice these skills.
I’m often asked for toy recommendations for early language development by both parents and other speech-language pathologists. If you haven’t already, please check out our blog post with our top 25 toys for toddlers. Today’s post is a special holiday edition that includes a list of Christmas gifts that are sure to inspire creativity, problem-solving and communication skills in the three- to five-year old children in your life. Whether you are a parent or grandparent, aunt, uncle or cousin, you can use this list as your go-to holiday shopping guide. If you celebrate Hanukkah, Kwanzaa or have a winter birthday celebration coming up, these toys are appropriate for year-round play.
How to Use This List
This list is sequenced in order of suggested age range, and some toys may be appropriate for multiple ages. For example, some toys may have an appropriate age range of 3 to 6 years, while others may be suitable for 4 years and older. The toys with no ending age may be appropriate for children up to 8 years old or even older. These type of toys offer the best value, as your child will enjoy them for many years to come.
Instead of including the current prices of the toys, the price range is represented by one or more $. This is because prices change daily--especially during the Black Friday sales. So use this key as a general guide:
$: under $25
$$: $25-$50
$$$: $50-$75
$$$$: over $75
While this list includes Amazon links, you are more than welcome to shop around for better prices. My hope is that by including these links, it will make your holiday shopping easy and stress free! Without further ado, here is the list of my top 30 gift ideas for 3-5 year-olds.
Holiday Shopping List for 3-5 Year-Olds
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: Build vocabulary as your child uses the sand to mix, squish, cut, scoop, twist and more.
Best for: Interactive and creative play
Price: $
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: Fill the pen with clean water and children can "paint" on the drawing mat again and again.
Best for: Interactive and creative play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This train set includes eight linkable wooden train cars, each approximately three inches long.
Best for: Imaginative play
Price: $
Age range: 2 to 8 years
Features: This set includes 100 wooden blocks in 4 different colors and 9 shapes. This takes your child a step beyond the typical square and rectangular shaped blocks for endless possibilities.
Best for: Interactive and creative play
Price: $
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This is a less expensive alternative to Magna Tiles and allows children to construct 3D shapes. They easily stack and store away.
Best for: Creative and pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 5 years
Features: This barn toy includes four animal figures and features working latches and locks on doors that open and close.
Best for: Vocabulary building, pretend play and storytelling
Price: $$
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This set includes 16 insects, 12 dinosaurs, 12 ocean animals, 12 farm animals, 12 wild animal, 12 dogs. Each is approximately 1-2 inches x 2-3 inches.
Best for: Vocabulary building and imaginative play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This doll's eyes open and close, and she can suck either her thumb or pacifier.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This doll's eyes open and close, and she can suck either her thumb or pacifier.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This doll accessory set includes two bottles, a divided dish, fork, spoon and play food. It pairs perfectly with the Jenna or Gabrielle dolls above.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range:
Features: This medical kit includes a stethoscope, blood pressure cuff, thermometer, otoscope, syringe, bandage & fabric "doctor" bag.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This vet kit includes a stuffed dog and cat, pretend play vet medical equipment and a tote bag for easy storage.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This toy includes eight ice cream scoops, six toppings, two cones, a cup, scooper, tongs, wooden spoon and pretend dollar 1 bills.
Best for: Interactive and pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 5 years
Features: This ice cream set includes four magnetic ice-cream scoops, two cones and a magnetic scooper.
Best for: Interactive and pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: Your child can make dozens of combinations with 6 cookies, 3 ice cream fillings, 2 double-sided Italian ice inserts, 6 multicolored ice pop halves, 2 Italian ice cups with lids, 2 spoons and a menu card.
Best for: Interactive and creative play
Price: $
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This blender set allows your child to spin the know to pretend to make multiple smoothie flavors with the included base, jar and lid. Place your order from the menu and watch your child chop the wooden fruit and vegetables with the included knife.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 5 years
Features: Your child can pretend to bake, decorate, and serve cookies with this bake set, which includes 12 sliceable cookies, 12 toppings, knife, spatula, cookie sheet and kitchen mitt.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This 52-piece sandwich counter includes wooden and felt pieces, a menu and pretend prep instructions.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 6 years old
Features: This play food set comes with 34 toppings, which enables your child to make your pretend pizza-to-order.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 3 to 5 years old
Features: This play food set comes with six sliceable wooden pizza slices and more than 30 toppings.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range: 3 to 5 years
Features: This 17-piece play-food set comes with a wooden knife that provides a realistic "crunching" sound when the fruits are sliced.
Best for: Pretend play and vocabulary building
Price: $
Age range: 3 to 6 years
Features: This play food set comes with 4 food groups, which will help your child with vocabulary, categories and sorting.
Best for: Pretend play and vocabulary building
Price: $
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This cash register comes with a real calculator and scanner, mic speaker, play money and sound effects.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This three-story playset comes with 35 accessories, including bendable figures, a helicopter, motorcycle and fire truck.
Best for: Pretend play and vocabulary building
Price: $$$$
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This 3-story wooden dollhouse comes with 16 accessories and fits 5-inch dolls.
Best for: Pretend play and vocabulary building
Price: $$$$
Age range: 3 years old and up
Features: This full-size kitchen is complete with a refrigerator, freezer, microwave, oven, stovetop and sink. The included magnets stick to the refrigerator, which is equipped with a working ice dispenser.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$$$
Age range: 4 years old and up
Features: This is a play on the classic "Bingo" game and builds language and matching skills in preschool kids.
Best for: Interactive play and vocabulary building
Price: $
Age range: 4 years old and up
Features: This 2-story play house includes three figures, two dogs, baby bottle, highchair and more.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$
Age range: 4 years old and up
Features: This playground set includes seven children figures, two adult figures, playground equipment, toy food and even animals to mimic a large park.
Best for: Pretend play
Price: $$$
Age range: 5 years old and up
Features: This grocery store set includes two adult figures, one child figure, food, cash register and many other accessories.
Best for: Interactive and pretend play
Price: $$$
